How to Give Support to Someone With Cancer?

When someone hears the word, cancer, it can be hard to find the right words and to show support to that person. Also, if you have never experienced cancer yourself or gone through that experience with someone; It can be difficult to know what to tell that person especially to motivate them. Before you speak to the person, ask yourself what you would tell yourself to encourage that person. Giving emotional support to the person is necessary for this stressful time. Offer to accompany them to their radiation, chemotherapy, or other treatments. 

If you are allowed to accompany them to their treatments, bring an adult coloring book and supplies to keep yourself busy while you wait. Make a care package such as books, magazines, socks, mugs, etc. Also, ask them questions if it is okay with them about speaking about cancer and treatments. Do not ask them too many personal questions. Listen to them and offer to help with the chores. 

If you can not be near them because of the pandemic, send them a virtual hug. Additionally, you can send them a text message to see how they are doing. Talk to them on the telephone about different topics other than their treatments. Send them a card In the mail or an e-mail.  Here are more resources about giving emotional support to someone who has cancer. 

Tips for Giving Emotional Support to Cancer Patients:

Tips for Giving Emotional Support to Cancer Patients (verywellhealth.com)

How to be a Friend to Someone with Cancer:

How to Be a Friend to Someone with Cancer

19 Ways to Help Someone with Cancer:

19 ways to help someone with cancer | MD Anderson Cancer Center

13 Good Things to Say to Someone with Cancer:

13 Good Things to Say to Someone with Cancer | CaringBridge

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