Being Comfortable With Yourself

Sometimes, life feels like a contest when you try to fit into a group, a social club, or with new friendships. It can be difficult when you are trying to get to know someone when they compare you to someone else.  However, there are ways to handle these situations, particularly when he or she criticizes your defects or how you look to them. At first, it might be difficult to comprehend and to deal with it. Yet, you try to ignore those hurtful words especially if you care for that person. 

Second, analyze everything and evaluate your relationship with that person. If you feel all the criticism is getting too harmful, walk away and let things cool down. Focus on your strengths and do not feel insecure. Being insecure because of what your boyfriend or girlfriend told you will eventually cause more harm. Sometimes, it is best to leave a toxic relationship for your own health and state of mind. 

Therefore, being comfortable with yourself will make you feel less insecure about yourself. You might be tempted to go back to an unhealthy relationship; But going back to a relationship that caused too much damage will bring back your painful recollections that person brought into the relationship. Also, accept yourself and forgive that person. Third, love the way you look, love your flaws, and love everything about yourself in a positive aspect. Having confidence in yourself will attract the people that can make you feel better about yourself and not worse. 

Be grateful and move on. Take care of yourself and do acts of kindness. Do not let the criticism from your boyfriend, girlfriend, or ex get you down. Being comfortable with yourself is fundamental to have healthy relationships. Here are more resources to feel good about yourself. 

How to Feel Comfortable in Your Own Skin:
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-feel-comfortable-in-your-own-skin/

6 Ways to Get More Comfortable With Others and Yourself:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201501/6-ways-get-more-comfortable-others-and-yourself

6 Ways to be More Comfortable With Yourself:
https://www.bustle.com/articles/130190-6-ways-to-be-more-comfortable-with-yourself

A Meditation on Your Self-Critical Voice-Mindful:
https://www.mindful.org/a-meditation-on-your-self-critical-voice/

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