Every relationship requires you to be cautious and to have satisfactory communication skills. However, some relationships give out warning signals when it is going to be detrimental to your emotional and physical health. Toxic relationships have expanded to Throning, Ghostlighting, and other controlling aspects. What is Throning and why is it considered toxic? What is ghostlighting?
Throning in a relationship
is harmful because one person benefits more in the relationship. It is all
about gaining a social status, social position, or just for appearances. Yet,
throning in a relationship is also about having prestige. This type of relationship
occurs frequently with celebrities. Nevertheless, this relationship can occur
to anyone without recognizing it.
It makes someone get
financial gains to level up in their position in society without wanting to
connect emotionally with another person. Physical contact is usually avoided.
There is no emotional support from the person that is in this type of relationship.
You might feel there is nothing in common between you and this person. It feels
like a one-sided relationship.
Whereas
Ghostlighting is about ghosting and gaslighting combined. In this relationship,
they will disappear for many months or many years. Then, they will reappear and
ignore your questions. Also, they may not recollect why they disappeared from
the relationship. Furthermore, they blame you for everything that happened to
them during those months or years after leaving the relationship.
These two unhealthy
relationships create tension and too much stress. They take advantage of you
financially and emotionally. As well as preventing you from meeting someone who
can appreciate you and be in a healthy relationship. It is difficult to leave a
harmful relationship, but it is necessary to establish your boundaries. You
must not let anyone take advantage of you.
Avoiding these relationships
helps you find and establish a healthy relationship with someone. Although
every relationship is different and unique with struggles, it is recommended to
find ways to connect emotionally. Finding ways to connect with someone in a
relationship based on their attachment styles and their personality. Even if
you do not know their attachment style or understand it; It is vital to connect
with them emotionally and share things in common. Work on each other's
insecurities with patience and kindness.
Do not make your partner
feel insecure, or jealous, or blame them for all your problems. Take
responsibilities together in the relationship. Take a sidestep and let them
know your boundaries ahead of the relationship. The more communication there
is, the more they can think highly of you. Here are websites about throning and
ghostlighting.
In the Digital Era Dating to Increase Your Social Capital has a Name Throning:
Ghostlighting Dating Trend:
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/relationships/a29665703/ghostlighting-dating-trend/
Domestic Violence Support and National Domestic Violence Hotline:
Domestic Violence Support | National Domestic Violence Hotline (thehotline.org)
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