Friendships & Love Styles & Relationships

Having a friendship is necessary in a relationship because of the similar things shared and the open communication. There are two love styles that can make you feel a strong connection with someone. Storge love style is about having a friendship. It is an attraction based on similarities and compatibility. This friendship makes the relationship feel safe, comfortable, and a mutual attraction with feelings. 

Storge love style is about companionship and not a physical attraction. Although, physical attraction might occur later in the relationship; Storge is about feelings and emotional attraction. This type of relationship is always familiar, and one feels peaceful being next to one’s partner. Nonetheless, this mutual support, companionship, and respect is what makes the relationship to be cozy. It makes both of you to fully accept, understand, and be committed to the relationship. 

Always appreciate your partner. Be honest in your conversations. As well as being available to be together. Storge love style can occur in a romantic relationship because it begins with a friendship that can last a long time. Do not avoid the physical intimacy aspects especially if both of you feel the intellectual and physical attraction. 

Another love style is Pragma. This love style combined with Storge, can make a healthy relationship with respect and mutual support. It also has similarities in values and an open communication within the relationship. Additionally, this type of relationship is about seeing beyond the physical aspects and seeing the qualities of your partner. Pragma is based on interests, intellectual intimacy, and trust. 

Forgiveness might come easier because of the shared experiences and understanding each other's thoughts. Although there might be conflicts, both of you can find solutions; Pragma love style strengthens you strengthen the relationship and your intimate bond. Share memories, do activities together, and show support for each other. Yet, Pragma love style can be unhealthy in a relationship when both of you feel unworthy with each other. Neglecting one's feelings and avoiding the emotional aspect of the relationship makes it tough to understand each other.

Overthinking, feeling discouraged, and having doubts can make the relationship difficult for both of you. However, do check in questions with your partner with honesty and being non-judgmental. Although, the passion and the physical attraction might occur slowly with Pragma and Storge love style; Always be patient with yourself and with your partner. It is recommended to help and encourage your partner. If both of you have difficulty in expressing physical attraction and expressing emotions, seek professional couples therapy. 

It is possible to have a Pragma and Storge love style. Respect each other's boundaries. Last, divide household chores and activities. Give personal space to your partner if needed, support, and motivation. Here are resources for relationship check in questions and to fall in love deeply. 

Tricks to Fall More Deeply in Love-Brides:

12 Love Tips for a Stronger Relationship

Relationship Check in Questions-The Knot:

20 Relationship Check-In Questions for Couples to Grow Stronger

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