Respectful Relationship Tips for Teens (TDVAM 2025)

How to have respectful relationships as a teenager? Dating as a teenager can be confusing and can make you feel misunderstood by your dating partner. However, dating as a teenager can make you more aware of what type of relationship you want and do not want to have. It can be challenging to date as a teenager or at any age. Yet, there are ways to have a respectful relationship as a teenager. 

It can be difficult at times because of the pressure of doing things and making choices in relationships. Additionally, you might not always agree with your partner when it comes to doing activities together and spending time with them outside of school. Yet, to have a respectful relationship it is necessary to be honest with yourself and with each other. Listen to your self-talk and trust yourself. Also, before replying to your date, make sure you are aware of your feelings. 

Sometimes as a teenager, you might reply without thinking about your date's feelings. You might immediately reply without thinking because of your emotions and as an automatic reaction to the situation. Nonetheless, honesty, trust, and giving space to your dating partner is essential for your relationship. If you have doubts about what a healthy relationship is like as a teenager, it is best to consult with a family member, your parents, or someone you can confide. Last, to have respect, one can have a conversation about what you like and dislike in a relationship. 

Although, you might feel scared, embarrassed, or feel uncomfortable; Having an open communication with your dating partner is helpful. Notice how your dating partner reacts and their feelings. As well as talking about your feelings and about consent. Consent is another topic that one must consider in a romantic relationship. Without consent, one loses respect for one another. 

How to Consent? You do not need a contract but make sure your dating partner understands what you can consent to. Also, let them know what you cannot consent to and explain why if needed. This can be tough to do but it can make it easier to have open communication with the person you are dating. Ask an older adult, family member, or your parents about tips to discuss consent with your date. 

Do not be scared about speaking to your parents. Your parents understand you and you can listen to them about their dating experiences as a teenager. Every year in February is National Teen Violence Awareness and Prevention Month. Below is a list of tips for having open communication with your dating partner. This year’s theme is "Respect That."

1. Be honest with how you feel during and after your dating activities. 
2. Do not permit your date to touch you inappropriately and without consent. 
3. Agree together about where, when, and what time you can go to the movies, to the park, skating, skateboarding, other fun activities. 
4. Use the phrases, " Respect me," " Respect my body," and "Respect my privacy, " and " Respect my thoughts."
5. Speak in a normal voice tone and without shouting at each other. 
6. Do not assume that your dating partner understands you and knows you well.
7. Be careful if your partner is jealous or wants to know every hour where you are at, especially if you go to different schools. 
8. Speak about your boundaries and what you consent such as the consent of kissing, holding hands, hugging, and touching your hair. 
9. Do not feel pressured to have sexual intimacy with your partner. 
10. Be respectful of your dating partner's thoughts and how they want to be touched romantically. 
11. Understand that your partner needs personal space and do not take it personally. 
12. Speak about consent in the conversation before doing any dating activities. 
13. Make sure that your dating partner understands that the word No means you do not consent. 
14. End the relationship if it begins to be an obsession, your partner hurts you physically, your partner hurts you emotionally, and makes your relationship feel like a game. 
15. Listen actively to your dating partner by staying quiet even if it feels uncomfortable for you.
16. Be patient with your dating partner and do not interrupt while you are listening. 
17. Have an open conversation in person about consent and other issues that bother you in the relationship. 
18. Also, have a conversation about pictures and videos before posting them on social media with your dating partner. 
19. Be aware of the words that you and your partner use while text messaging. 
20. If you feel uncomfortable about something, let your dating partner know about it. 

In summary respect, consent, and feeling safe in the relationship are necessary for having healthy relationships. Make sure you are comfortable and feel safe. Keep in mind that sexual intimacy is a choice that one makes and without feeling pressured to do it. Also, you can still enjoy spending time with your romantic dating partner without rushing to have sexual intimacy. Let your romantic partner understand your reasons for what you can consent to.

Feeling pressured about having sexual experiences because of social media. As well as thinking that everyone in your high school class is doing these things, it can make you want to move quickly in your dating experiences. Other pressures are self-discovering what dating is all about and how to act during a date. Additionally, feeling pressured to self-discover oneself and feeling pressured to compare your date with social media couples in your relationship. Last feeling pressured for having a perfect relationship without jealousy and possessiveness. 

Keep in mind that every relationship is unique and has different conflicts. Also, do not make assumptions that couples in social media have the perfect romantic relationship. As a teenager, you might feel scared and overwhelmed about how your dating relationship should be. Yet, avoid making comparisons and avoid copying your friend's dating relationship. Furthermore, do not copy social media couples that you see online, digital magazines, or on television. 

It is best to be yourself. Develop ways to reduce school stress and take breaks from dating if needed. If you have doubts about your dating partner or any other dating issues; Seek advice from an older adult or from a professional counselor. Encourage your dating partner to be honest, to trust, and to have an open communication with you. Here are resources for having respectful relationships and tips for parents. 

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