Scrooging
is the worst way to break up with someone. When someone does this before the
holidays it is not about the gifts. Although scrooging is done by not giving
gifts to your boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner; There are more reasons behind
this type of break up. It might be difficult for them to give you all the
reasons for ending the relationship. Yet, it seems easier for them not to give
gifts and to cancel holiday plans with you.
It is a harsh way
to end a relationship. There are multiple reasons for scrooging. Scrooging can
be done to avoid a difficult matter such as finding someone else, living with
someone, dating multiple people at the same time, or dating someone else secretly.
Another reason is that they might be hiding an affair or are being unfaithful
to their long-term partner. Nevertheless, scrooging can also be done because of
lack of money or not knowing what gift to buy.
It is necessary
to have an honest conversation with someone regarding exchanging gifts and
giving gifts. Notice if they ask you what gift you would like or if they avoid
speaking about giving gifts to you. Ask them what their holiday plans are and
listen actively. They might mention they are too busy and do not have time for
you. Yet, they might tell you that you are included in their holiday plans but
with no definite day or time.
Additionally, the
person who does the scrooging gives their partner signals before ending the
relationship. They will be distant, distracted, and always short on time to see
you. As well as canceling holiday events and rescheduling your date. You are
taken for granted and they make you wait a long time to see each other again.
Avoidance occurs frequently and they make you feel that something is wrong in
the relationship.
Furthermore, they
tell you they cannot spend the holidays with you as much as they would like to.
Scrooging occurs during the holidays when they no longer want to be in a
relationship. It also makes them leave the relationship without committing and
without meeting their family. Moreover, they have no intention of meeting your
family either, which is disappointing. Do not blame yourself if your partner
does this before the holidays.
Do not make
assumptions that your partner might scrooge, especially if they do not give you
a gift during the holidays. First do not have expectations that you will get a
gift. Second, do not rush into leveling up your relationship status. Every
relationship requires different elements, and each couple needs to grow
together. Third, give your boyfriend, girlfriend, or partner some time to
prepare and feel less pressure before the holidays begin.
Scrooging has
nothing to do with laziness and procrastination. Dating during the holidays is
exciting but be cautious. Know that scrooging is a harmful dating tactic to end
a relationship. Trust your instincts. Here are websites about scrooging.
Scrooging The Worst Dating Trend That Can Potentially Ruin Your Holidays:
Scrooging Christmas Dating:
https://manofmany.com/lifestyle/sex-dating/scrooging-christmas-dating
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