Safety, Survivors, and End Domestic Violence Together (DVAM 2025)
How can you help a survivor of
domestic violence? How can you bring awareness for domestic Violence
prevention? Every year I ask myself this question regarding domestic violence,
especially during October. Although Domestic violence can happen anywhere,
anytime, and in an instant; It is important to have conversations with your
children especially when they are teenagers. It is a difficult subject to speak
about, but it is necessary especially if they know someone who is experiencing
domestic violence or domestic abuse.
Being informed about the warning signs
of domestic violence is the first step to helping someone. Also, giving them
emotional support and helping them with their emotional healing. Avoiding
certain triggers or reminding them about the painful experience is also
recommended. Yet, keep an honest communication with them and make sure they
feel safe speaking about it. Lastly, getting to know a survivor of domestic
violence can help others to prevent it.
Do not make the survivor feel shame,
guilt, or worry about what others might think about them. If you can relate to
a survivor’s experience, do share your experiences with them without
interrupting each other. Plan an evening and provide resources about recovering
from domestic violence, family violence, and domestic abuse. Accompany a
survivor to a group therapy or a domestic violence survivors community event.
Give flowers or a handmade gift to help a survivor to feel support.
Post free social media graphics with a
message of hope to domestic violence survivors. Have a family night and have an
hour of silence in memory of someone who has experienced domestic violence or
domestic abuse. It is also essential to understand the survivors of domestic
violence and domestic abuse. Do not assume that they will tell you everything
about their past hurtful experiences. They might cry, get angry, or feel a loss
of words but it is essential for their healing and recovery.
Every year in October is Domestic
Violence Awareness Month. This year the theme is “Survivors deserve safety,
support, and solidarity.” Throughout the entire month, you can show and give
support to survivors of domestic violence. Domestic violence not only occurs in
relationships, but it can also occur within the family. Family violence can
occur frequently, and it can be difficult to see the warning signs.
Often it is one or two
parents or another family member that has experienced family violence and
domestic violence. It is a painful experience as well as an experience that
takes time to heal and recover as an adult. Nonetheless, when someone has
experienced family violence and domestic violence, one must be ready to listen,
speak, and not to be silent if a family member has hurt you. To end Domestic
Violence and to make a change, one must believe, listen, and help a survivor to
speak about their family and domestic violence. This year you can bring
awareness of domestic violence by using the hashtags “# Stand Up to Silence,”
“#Stop the Hurt,” and “#Empower Survivors.”
You can participate in
community events and bring awareness in social media about helping survivors
from domestic violence and family violence. Preventing domestic violence in the
home and in the community is possible. Help a survivor by getting the resources
that they will need. Accompany them to the hospital or to their medical
appointments. Also, help a survivor to report it to the authorities and to
their medical provider.
Practice mindfulness,
Yoga, or mind and body exercises for reducing stress, nervousness, or anxiety.
If they like to do creative activities like crocheting, artworks, sewing, or
macrame; Join them and have a relaxing conversation. Participate in a karaoke
session, a walking marathon, or a charity event to prevent domestic violence.
Additionally sign up for a domestic violence prevention event in your workplace
or an information night at your child's school. Wear purple with your family or
a purple accessory as a reminder to show support.
Wear purple on the third
Thursday of the week in October. Purple is the chosen color for bringing
awareness and to show support to survivors of domestic violence. Make a
survivor feel welcomed and demonstrate empathy. Give encouraging words and have
meaningful conversations. Here are resources for Domestic Violence.
HCWC Empowering Survivors Together:
HCWC Empowering Survivors Together
Domestic Violence Support-National Domestic Violence Hotline:
Domestic Violence Support | National Domestic Violence Hotline



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